Today I spoke with an old friend, one who I havent talked to in many months. Mostly because C deceided to not talk to me anymore for a whole bunch of what I would call to be dumb *** reasons, but i digress, she called me today and told me that she graduated. I was happy for her, one of the worst things about me is my un-ability to hold a grudge with someone I am really an out of sight out of mind type of person. So shortly after we started talking she started crying about how scared she was of life and just like that I fell back in her trap. I started concerning myself with how I can help her and what I can do, I know now the reason for that is simple. Friends dont get to hold grudges.
I am sure that most of you have heard the saying that friends can tell each other everything, and thats true, lok at it like this most of you have siblings, and all of you probaly have friends, but can you say that all of your siblings are friends. Probaly not. Thats what make friendship so important, because its a way to become more than family with someone else. If you choose to make this sacrifice and wear the crown, I think it comes with a life time of friendship, and no matter what happens you have to be there for the person.
But if a friend betrays you once, get rid of them never give anyone the chance to screw you over twice. Thats just some sound bussines advice............. |