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A friend in need..............May. 14, 2005

Today I spoke with an old friend, one who I havent talked to in many months.  Mostly because C deceided to not talk to me anymore for a whole bunch of what I would call to be dumb *** reasons, but i digress, she called me today and told me that she graduated.  I was happy for her, one of the worst things about me is my un-ability to hold a grudge with someone I am really an out of sight out of mind type of person.  So shortly after we started talking she started crying about how scared she was of life and just like that I fell back in her trap.  I started concerning myself with how I can help her and what I can do, I know now the reason for that is simple.  Friends dont get to hold grudges.

 

I am sure that most of you have heard the saying that friends can tell each other everything, and thats true, lok at it like this most of you have siblings, and all of you probaly have friends, but can you say that all of your siblings are friends.  Probaly not.  Thats what make friendship so important, because its a way to become more than family with someone else.  If you choose to make this sacrifice and wear the crown, I think it comes with a life time of friendship, and no matter what happens you have to be there for the person.

 

But if  a friend betrays you once, get rid of them never give anyone the chance to screw you over twice.  Thats just some sound bussines advice.............

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Untitled CommentMay. 15, 2005
Sorry to hear about your friend having troubles =/
Posted by MzGuided

Friends...May. 17, 2005
Friends are as fickle as love is...its hard to find good and loyal and true friends this day and age. Friends definitely don't take advantage of you, or hurt you, if they did hurt you in a way that ruin your trust in them, or hurt you in a way that impacted you deeply, most likely they weren't a friend to begin with, so becareful out there. Sometimes mistakes are made, and people deserve second chances, but never a third! I'll give an old friend a chance, but after that, if they mess up again, I wouldn't think it twice, I'll end that friendship and never look back, but I won't wish them ill thoughts, I will just throw their number and address away and never look back! No matter what! Friends correct you when you're wrong, and they are loyal, true and they will always have the best of intensions. So far you sound like a good friend, just pick and choose wisely, you'll be alright!
Posted by Palauwiz

Untitled CommentMay. 17, 2005
thanks a lot for the imput. its given me a lot to think about.
Posted by sin12001

hey buddy...Jun. 9, 2005
jus wanted to say hi...and keep ya head up *hugs*
Posted by MzGuided

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