*~~Advice from a friend~~*

This is an email that my friend Angelo sent me about my situation:

OK.  Here it is…but I don’t think u are gonna like it.

First of all…I would not be all too sure that the friend was the only one messing around in the bathroom.  Second…he is doing everything that he can to get out of this.  By him saying that he never wants to get married…he is trying to get you to leave of your own accord.  He sees no future…that means he wants out.  Sex is boring…he is trying to get you to leave…again of your own choice.  He never calls….thats because he is trying to split up with as little drama as possible.  He wants it to end and he does not want to talk about it.  As far as he is concerned he has already explained it to you.  I have been on both ends of this kinda situation.  I think that you are probably more scared of being on your own than u are of him being gone.  It sounds like one of those situations where u just need to cut your losses.  It is not pleasant…not fun…but in the long run you will find that it was the best decision ever.  Take it from a guy that has been divorced and dumped more times than I wish to recount.  Believe it or not…you can actually afford an apartment on your own…and the bills too.  I checked my numbers with and without having my wife around…lol….don’t ask…lol…and let me tell ya that I would be in much better financial shape without her.  Many times the girlfriends can be wrong…but this time I think they were right.  Start quietly looking for apartments and you will see that u can be alright.     

my boyfriend is an a**hole!!!!

4:49 PM - Feb. 17, 2006 - post comment

angelo...

i think i have to agree with angelo. ur bf sounds like a real a-hole. he seems to think that he can do wutever he wants cause he knows that u will always take him back. yes he may be an amazing man but is he that amazing that he can treat u like crap? u have alot of love to give and it hurts me to hear that ur giving it to someone who really doesn't deserve it anymore. try and have a wonderful day...
C.

4everlostnalone - 7:30 AM - Feb. 18, 2006

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