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I was a cocky( in terms of interpersonal relationshipz) naive, self righteous, and spoiled. In terms of guyz ( the ones i fell for) i was clingy, jealous, possesive, and non trusting...in terms of self..i was non decisive, non assertive...and a plain ol push over. My life used to be full of pain, but i finally said NO MORE. Thre differenc between now and then is that i finally have help.....

WTFDec. 20, 2005

i already HAD my period for this month lol so why does it feel like it's coming again *pouts* this sucks, this absolutely sucks...ah well least it'll be over before Christmas. Things at work are pretty coo, i love having my own classroom, i really, truly do. I'm planning the party for Thursday, although i've only seen 3 of my parents, i hope they chip in for snacks, i wrote a big sign on the door,but no one signed their kids up =/ Anyway, all im contributing is a box of spiderman cookies(GOTTA LOVE DOLLA TREE) Also the employee Christmas party is Thursday and they want us to contribute to that as well, i said i would bring carrots and celery...but they also want me to give $5 to the bosses gift..F*CK tha lol excuse my french but damn, i don't have money for all that contributing, my phone bill is due, i still have a few last minute presents to grab, i just shelled out 150 on my tooth, plus...i don't want to be broke until my next check..so NO...sorry but no..I'm done contributing.

I need to be salvaging my credit so i can build my business and get the hell out of dodge, i can't lose focus of my dream. I have the house to myself with nothing really to do. Wha i really need is a mortgage deal to go through, but it doesn't seem likely, anyway, all i know is God is good, i remember praying and asking God to increase my territory and he did, first with the new job, then again with the promotion.
I'm trying not to focus so hard on guys right now, in fact i have a few new guys interested and it's akward because i'm not where i want to be when i settle down. I've been blowing guys off( shut up) and it feels good in a weird way, not the actually making someone else upset part, but the part about me being strong enough to do it. There was a time when i felt desperate, not as in i can't meet guys, jus desperate to say "i have someone" i dunno why tha was so important to me, it still is, but not to tha degree. I want to feel special to someone, i still get envious when i see couples out n about...but it's not as bad as it used to be. One day tha time will come for me, and when it does i'll know how to handle it. I have to be stable within myself, because i know when the day does come i'll put all my effort into pleasing him, and right now..i can't afford that.

Speaking of tha, i told Tee he was greedy and a hypocrite, it seemed to hit a cord, but i dun care. The things i said needed to be said, it's bad enuff i go out of my way for guys, but it's horrible when i do it and they dun even deserve it.I was in denial for a long time about him, about his motives, his feelings, and whatever else, but after the month we spent apart i did a lot of thinking, and even when we got back together i felt tha something wasn't right, but this time i wasn't about to look like a fool. It's still sad though, because at one time he did give me everything i needed, but no use dwelling on the past, now we play by my rules =)
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