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I was a cocky( in terms of interpersonal relationshipz) naive, self righteous, and spoiled. In terms of guyz ( the ones i fell for) i was clingy, jealous, possesive, and non trusting...in terms of self..i was non decisive, non assertive...and a plain ol push over. My life used to be full of pain, but i finally said NO MORE. Thre differenc between now and then is that i finally have help.....

Being Comfotable in your own skin....Aug. 13, 2005

Insecure.....such a nuisance. I haven't felt insecure in a long time. But lately my height has beeen driving me crazy....5'7...my favorite actress in the world is 5'7.. which i realiZe is tall for a girl. The average is about 5'4 righ? My question is i know i can't make myself shrink lol so how do i get back to being comfortable @ 5'7. With heels I'm *gasp* 5'9...which is still not THAT bad..it's just that the *new* average height of the men and guys in st. louis is like 5'7 lol ...so that means that in a large group of people i am one of the tallest people, ALWAYS..and tha sucks, it makes me feel so huge like a big bear or something =/ I guess that's why i'm so comfortable dating larger framed guys. So all this time, most of my guy friends are larget guys , if not in height, in weight, not fat per say, but "thick" , husky, or even muscular...just not tiny tots...and i like that.

 But i've dated the thinnest guy in the world, he had to be lol he was 6'4 and like 100 lbs if that..and that was fine too...but nowwwwwwwwwww, i'm dating a guy who is 5'6 with a pretty small frame, hey maybe i'm 5'6 too because we're the same height lol but neway, i've been feeling so insecure about my height lately, i think it's just because i've got all this body ( not exactly a good thing) that it makes me feel extra large, even though everytime we go out guys are always starring at me, even guys who are smaller than him, like last night , this guy who had to be like 5'4 himself kept looking at me like he was going to step to me right in front of Tee, and then had the nerve to start singing,
" you the one girl" by cee-lo.

But thas how it is, short guys are attracted to me, tall guys usually are attracted to short girls lol opposites attract? But I'm not  complaining .
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Untitled CommentAug. 22, 2005
I'm so happy that at the wedding , there were two bridesmaids taller than me one about two inches taller, the other like 4 inches taller.....i was a happy camper...yayy..yayy =)
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