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| I was a cocky( in terms of interpersonal relationshipz) naive, self righteous, and spoiled. In terms of guyz ( the ones i fell for) i was clingy, jealous, possesive, and non trusting...in terms of self..i was non decisive, non assertive...and a plain ol push over. My life used to be full of pain, but i finally said NO MORE. Thre differenc between now and then is that i finally have help..... |
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Sometimes
people are so afraid of trying that they set their standards so
high tha the downfall couldn't possibly have been their fault. I have a friend, whom i admit everyday makes me think of different theories, but anway..i believe this friend sets herself up with impossible situations, already knwoing the outcome, just so she can have something to talk about, to dream about, to prove herself right, that things do always go bad for her. Example: Thw three guys she is craziest about...there's no chance of her ever getting...not in the way she wants anyway. The first guy was a good friend, but he has always had a gf. Sure he flirted with her, took her out and showed her the world, even made her feel like there was a chance for them, but really drove home the point the night they slept in the same bed, she was trying to get something going by rubbing on his lep, kissing his stomach..and his reaction? Not even so much as a drop of sweat. No hard on, nothing. Was she really trying to get something going? One could say not because she was on her cycle..so..again..proving my theory right. It failed not because he wasn't interested, but because she was on. Hmm.. The second...a guy who quite possibly is gay. He's nearing 26 and NEVER had a gf. Probably a virgin, a stern momma's boy, and a wholesome Christian...who jus so happens to think she is judgemental. But she has proclaimed her love her for home on more than one occasion. He ignores her..basically..they wen tout once..but he left early. The thrid...a guy who's been living with his ex on again off again girlfriend for 5 years or more, has a 6 yr old child, and is extremely flirty. Out of all these guys, he's the one she has a shot of actually going out with. She can easily call him and ask him out, but her excuse is she's had too much rejection from guys and is afraid of putting herself out there. Well of course you've had too much rejection, look at the guys you go for....guys who for whatever reason are WAYYYY out of your league. Not because of ur appearance but because of how u carry urself. Lack of confidence = lack of sex appeal. What guy is gonna want u if u dont even want urself? There is a guy..a nice guy, who is attractive dying for her attention..but she pushes him away. Why? I think because she is so uncomfrtable with herself she's afraid of letting someone in thinking once she gives in, he'll "open his eyes' and realize his mistake..then brake her heart. So instead, she opts for guys who are unattainable. | ||
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