If any of u are like i was,  then  u probably look to men  for ur  personal gratification. Imma tell u....this time last year i was walking around thinking i had it all together, thinking i was so da stuff cuz i had so many niggaz jocking( real talk) I was too moral to be a ho' or a gold digger, but i did use fellaz for their time and companionship. I COULDN'T BE ALONE I was like a lil junkie....i'd get my lil fix and need more, no one guy could satisfy me for long....in my heart i thought i was keeping it 100 with them cuz i'd let them know i wasn't 'feeling them' but i was leading them on and breaking heartz. All i wanted was to find that one true love....so i could stop this vicious cycle, i couldn't understand why  everyone else was finding it but me.

The problem was i DIDN'T KNOW MYSELF.....i was completely unaware of my own faults. I knew the major ones, but the key ones, the ones that really matter when it comes to serious relationshipz i was clueless.

I was unable to see myself because i was constantly surrounded by people, by men telling me how great i am, and girls telling me how fun i am to be around. I LOVED ATTENTION....and no amount was ever enough, how could one man possibly keep me happy?

I don't know what ur problem areas are, chances are u don't either. This year 07, take the time out to really get to know YOU. Take some me time, to figure out what YOU need to work on, what YOU can bring to the table, and what YOU need in a man. And if ur like me, i couldn't come our of my old ways on my own, i needed help....and what helped me  was my saviour Jesus Christ . I'm not a Bible pusher, but maybe YOU should call on him too.

Become the best YOU and then strive for the one who compliments( not completes) you.

DON'T SETTLE....and DON'T be ruled by your emotions PRIDE being a  major emotion among us ladies. Don't stick around cuz he gives ya da buziness cuz if his heart aint in it imagine how many otha ladies getting it too~ aids is too real in "our" community~ think bout dat.