Guys Vs. God

I'm so sick and tired of  some  guys  and their  inconsiderate nature. . I've been through a lot in my life and i thought  being in love would " conquer all" (it was the only thing missing) ...for some people thas true, but it wasn't for me. I found love, but i was still empty inside.  When i meet a guy im not looking to change him into a "Christian" because i CHOOSE to only date Christian men, just makes it easier. So..when i meet guys who aren't Christians they get all huffy and puffy...look.I'm not trying to change u, so dont get made when u realize u can't change me.....I am who i am, either respect that or keep it moving...simple!

 Anyway, I'm very frustrated with a friend right now. I try not to push my beliefs on others....i try to hand with like minded people. But this friend  beliefs are soo diff than mine, and  he met a girl whos beliefs are similar if not the exact same as my own .

He not only doesn't understand her beliefs..but disagree's. As a friend i want to listen and be there for him, but i understand where she's coming from. Being in the same position...we dun want anyone whos just waisting our time. If u not on the same thing then leave us to someone else who may be. (as far as dating )

At first, my friend wasn't tha interested in her, said she "wasn't the one" and tha he only wants to date girls he can see marrying...well...after i suggested to him that he let it go sense she wants a "spiritual man" he suddenly is more interested in her ....only to after another date complain even more about her beliefs--it's  One thing to disagree with her beliefs...but knock her beyond her back for it...to me ..when u know  she and i believe the same thing??? She has a right to want to date a spiritual man, if ur not it then keep it moving, why do some guys have to make everything so hard. U  weren't even that interested in her until she seemed like a forbidden fruit....geez

* rollz eyez*

Am i wrong for being annoyed?

COMMENT:

That's the way of the world, Lacy Loo. You always want what seems unattainable. It puts more of a fire under your can to pursue what you seemingly can't have. With that being said, you are totally right for being annoyed!

Posted by Richelle  on Monday, November 27, 2006 at 10:17 PM