whatever happened to the thug? lol. i just got to work, an hour after i planned. i know i said that i needed to get to work an hour early every day to get caught up, but have been staying up late talking to friends. it seems like i've been pulling a dr. phil lately and been trying to help out everyone that needs it. unfortunately all of my good friends are females and it appears that they are all going through a personal crisis. i've got a friend in cali that is having some real problems. she's pretty, smart, and funny. to me she's one of the coolest chicks out there. i mean i think she's got all of the right ingredients to make some dudes a realy good gf. she has only one major problem tho, has a tendency to choose the wrong type of guys to date. recently she went on a date with a guy and it was a first date. i guess they felt some chemistry so kicked it later that night. then he stopped calling. i guess she gets a little anxious and calls him up and basically asks him wut kind of relationship that they're gonna have. from what i can figure out, the dude basically doesnt answer her and tries to tell her that he really doesnt want an exclusive relationship at this point. i spent pretty much 2 hours listening to her cry about whats wrong with her and why no one wants her. she tells me that since she lost her virginity last year... she's been with 12 different guys and every guy she's been with, she's never had more than 1 date. wow. i cant even imagine a dude not wanting to come back to her after doing the dirty deed. thats pretty much the climate in cali tho nowdays, especially among the asian community. i lived in pasadena for awhile and it seems that no one is really looking for a serious relationship anymore. too bad for them, they dont know what they're misssing.

 omg... i cant believe my baby just called me up. here i am chillin to love songs and thinking about her, and out of the blue, just like magic she calls me up.  see what i mean about how special she is??? earlier last nite while i was reading some stuff online she messages me and says that she needed a hug cause she was having a bad day. it seems that her professor singled her out due to some comments she had made and proceeded to pretty much embarrass her in front of the class. my baby is pretty sensitive and i told her to log off so i could call her. i told her that the professor better pray that he wont run into me when i go spend christmas vacation with her. swear to God i'm gonna kick his ass. i guess i said something funny cause she busted out laughing. lol. hey at least i can cheer her up. but forealz his ass is grass if i see him. thats wut u call an abuse of authority.  all i'm saying is he better watch his back.

 shifting gears again... i lost my ATM card last week and finally got around to signing up for a replacement. they said it'll take 7-10 days to arrive in the mail. big problem. i gotta get my plane tickets pretty soon cause if i buy it less than a month in advance its gonna be higher. bad enough that xmas is peak period for travelling. worse come to worse i gotta go thru a travel agent. dont really wanna go that route cause i really dont have that extra cheese to waste. gosh so many things to do and so very little time to do it.

 well thats about all i have cause i'm gonna have to start busting my ass at work. kisses for my baby and yall take care.